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Well what you resonate with is melancholy, sadness, misery — not depression. Depression is knowing that, say, being stuck in that relationship/job/location mak
by romwell 5y ago
Well what you resonate with is melancholy, sadness, misery — not depression.
Depression is knowing that, say, being stuck in that relationship/job/location makes you miserable, knowing that you can and should get out or otherwise change the environment that's crushing you — and still believing the voice telling you that you should lay low and do nothing about it, that nothing you do matters and you shouldn't try to change it.
>enjoyment to find in life is all the experiences along the way
Depression is not enjoying anything anymore. Imagine all your favorite food suddenly tasting like paper. It's the same, but with everything you've ever done.
Depression will tell you that this is just how things are from now on, and forever. That it's pointless to even try.
Depression is not lack of happiness. Sadness, melancholy, even misery and pain aren't depression.
I sincerely wish that nobody would resonate with what I'm writing here. But I know that there are many who would.
And I want them to know that the voice telling all these things isn't you and is just fake news that your lizard brain broadcasts as a protective response to something that isn't even there.
Being trapped in a bad job isn't the same as being trapped in a literal lion's den, but your lizard brain can't tell the difference.
- rubylark 5y agoI don't disagree with your interpretation of depression, but I do find fault with this statement: > Depression is not lack of happiness. Sadness, melancholy, even misery and pain aren't depression. I'd argue that melancholy, sadness, and misery can all be the essential framework of other types of depression. Just because you don't experience that kind personally doesn't mean that others don't. I suffer from aural migraines that cause temporary blindness. Some people get migraines without the blanking of vision. Even though someone else with a mind-splitting headache doesn't have the classic visual aberrations with it doesn't mean that they aren't having as painful or incapacitating of a migraine as I am.
- romwell 5y agoAgreeing with this as well, I should have said "aren't necessarily". All those are symptoms of depression.