What has always confused me is that just about everyone wants a label, to join a team and wear a uniform. Most people seem to crave some sort of conformity or a

What has always confused me is that just about everyone wants a label, to join a team and wear a uniform. Most people seem to crave some sort of conformity or assimilation -- is that all "belonging" is? At any rate, you're not allowed to be just yourself! If you don't take on an Identity, people just assume the defaults based on your physical appearance (then they react poorly if you don't act like they expect). The concept of Identity is a mindfuck, if your social wiring is the least bit atypical.