Did you read more than the 1st sentence? "There was one instance where he rushed me and I put my arms out to stop him, another where he pinned me down on the b

Did you read more than the 1st sentence? "There was one instance where he rushed me and I put my arms out to stop him, another where he pinned me down on the bed, but from what I can recall right now the rest was emotional, financial, verbal and lots of intimidation like punching holes in the wall, throwing and breaking things, screaming in my face." Rushing, pinning, punching, and throwing are physical and violent. And I don't know how you ruled out threats.