The actual act doesn't bother me much, it is the justifying it by saying someone else did it. Imagine if they said "and at the end of the night I was plastered

The actual act doesn't bother me much, it is the justifying it by saying someone else did it. Imagine if they said "and at the end of the night I was plastered and drove home. But don't harsh me, the Smirnoff lady did it too."