> if you have the wrong expectations for the way something is, you're going to suffer because of those expectations. OTOH: “The reasonable man adapts himself t

> if you have the wrong expectations for the way something is, you're going to suffer because of those expectations. OTOH: “The reasonable man adapts himself to the world: the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.” -- George Bernard Shaw