> Isn't this its own answer? It's prized precisely because it is unattainable for most. No, the question is why value softness so highly when you cannot surviv

> Isn't this its own answer? It's prized precisely because it is unattainable for most. No, the question is why value softness so highly when you cannot survive without "hardness", when as a soft woman, you cannot even feed your children. Softness will lead to death.