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What are you talking about? Women are still often told that sexual harassment is their own fault for dressing the way they do, or get told "boys will be boys".
by tallanvor 5y ago
What are you talking about?
Women are still often told that sexual harassment is their own fault for dressing the way they do, or get told "boys will be boys". It used to be expected that women would have to put up with it in the workplace.
Rape victims get told that if they really didn't want it to happen they could have fought harder.
There are still judges in the US giving lighter sentences or no jail time at all and citing this sort of reasoning.
So yes, society has certainly made an exception for sexual abuse of all forms for many years and those excuses are still being made. Are things improving? Yes. Are those improvements good enough? Not by a long shot.
- AmericanChopper 5y agoWhich is a justification for the objective metoo set out to achieve, and it seems one a lot of people agree with. However those objective are very clearly to undermine the foundational principles of justice. Perhaps you find the arguments for this to be very compelling, but it’s simply a fact that metoo set out to promote a presumption of guilt, in all areas of society that it was able to influence. Most metoo advocates entirely avoid addressing this fact, and a lot of people reasonably disagree with metoo because of it.
- notahacker 5y agoThe principle that the standard of evidence for the state to deprive somebody of their liberty should be high /= it being epistemically sound to assume the person issuing denials is the most likely person to be telling the truth. And as far as concrete responses go, I would think it extremely unjust to lock up somebody purely based on anecdotes about creepy behaviour towards kids. But I also wouldn't hire him as a babysitter or a television presenter.
- unbalancedevh 5y agoWhen false accusations/anecdotes result in someone being socially ostracized, it is still an injustice that can severely affect the person. I don't really think there's a prescriptive solution to this, but I hope society improves on it. Reality is what it is.
- notahacker 5y agoOh, I agree with that (and likewise not being believed can severely affect a person whose accusations are true, and often also involves ostracism). Ultimately I think society improves when the crime is genuinely rare, which has the side effect of innocent people being less likely to be accused, but there isn't an easy answer to that either.
- Jensson 5y ago> There are still judges in the US giving lighter sentences or no jail time at all and citing this sort of reasoning. Name one case in the last 5 years where the judge uses the victims clothes as a reason for a light sentence in USA, and where the judge wasn't punished for it. It should be possible to find one right? If you can't even find one for a whole 5 years I wouldn't say that this is a problem we need to care about, once per 5 years in a population of 300 million is basically never.
- romwell 5y agoTL;DR: read this first: https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/05/sexual-assault-rape-sympathy-no-prison.html https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/05/sexual-assault-r... -------------------------------------- You are asking the wrong question. The judges don't give reasons for their sentences like that (i.e., the judge is under no obligation to say "I was going to give this person X years, but I'm giving them X-Y because the victim was wearing a mini skirt"). The question you should be asking is: is victim's clothing an admissible evidence in rape cases? That's to say, is it something that the defense uses in their arguments? And the answer is that, historically, yes, victim's clothing has been extensively used by the defense in rape cases.[1] The issue was serious enough that states started to adopt laws that banned using clothing as indication of consent in rape cases. By 1994, NY introduced such a law - being the second state in the nation to do so[2]. However, no matter what the law is regarding admissible evidence, the judges will most likely know what the victim was wearing because that, in itself, is collected for evidence. To argue that this does not factor into sentencing would be improbable given the prevalent attitudes in our society, and studies like[5] confirm that. Which brings us to the main problem: that even without taking clothing as an excuse, sexual assault perpetrators are often left unpunished or given a slap on the wrist, like in the infamous case of the rapist Brock Turner[7]. This is, of course, tangential to the point that a significant part of the population believes that clothing can be an indicator of consent [3][4], which results in the dismal proportion of cases being reported to begin with, and then a small percentage of those brought to prosecution. In the end, the judges simple don't give prison time to rapists. The judges give light sentences citing anything as a reason, without consequence. You can see plenty of cases in the survey[8], many of them quite recent. The analysis of the extent to which victim-blaming has been a factor in each of those cases is left as an exercise to the reader. [1]https://scholarship.law.umn.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1412&context=lawineq https://scholarship.law.umn.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=... [2]https://www.nytimes.com/1994/07/30/nyregion/new-law-says-victims-attire-cannot-be-cited-in-rape-cases.html https://www.nytimes.com/1994/07/30/nyregion/new-law-says-vic... [3]https://www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/2016/04/13/why-dress-codes-cant-stop-sexual-assault/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/posteverything/wp/2016/04/13/... [4]https://philpapers.org/archive/WOLPDA-3.pdf https://philpapers.org/archive/WOLPDA-3.pdf [5]https://escholarship.org/content/qt0fq160dv/qt0fq160dv.pdf?t=mlqpl7 https://escholarship.org/content/qt0fq160dv/qt0fq160dv.pdf?t... [7]https://www.nytimes.com/2016/06/09/us/brock-turner-blamed-drinking-and-promiscuity-in-sexual-assault-at-stanford.html https://www.nytimes.com/2016/06/09/us/brock-turner-blamed-dr... [8]https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/05/sexual-assault-rape-sympathy-no-prison.html https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/05/sexual-assault-r...