I think I finally get it. The contemporary expression of "gender" is like an arrow that only ever points fully to the left or fully to the right. What an unhel

I think I finally get it. The contemporary expression of "gender" is like an arrow that only ever points fully to the left or fully to the right. What an unhelpful oversimplification and bias. It's like a conveyor belt that can only reason about what's been dropped on it after the things move off the left side or the right side. How can we stop the conveyor belt and take notice of where everything just is?