Yeah, hard to say. For me it was a long process of inching closer and closer to the problem. Which meant it happened years later than it should have. I suspect

Yeah, hard to say. For me it was a long process of inching closer and closer to the problem. Which meant it happened years later than it should have. I suspect therapy can get you there a lot faster. For some people, getting high or tripping can help. The first step is looking for it though. If you find yourself saying "I want to do X but I keep not doing it", that's a sign something's messed up. I imagine that meditating on that feeling can target the neurotic drive directly.