"It’s just hazing." I think you've found the core idea. Some profession include situations with actual stress and mortal danger. Doing good programming should

"It’s just hazing." I think you've found the core idea. Some profession include situations with actual stress and mortal danger. Doing good programming should be more like solving high school math problems in solitude than a high pressure social interaction. Or: if your development environment has high stress interaction get a consultant to settle the issue, you likely have multiple issues that need to be dealt with.