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>my advice is rational, you aren’t in a rational state of mind That's not just a problem with teaching, it's the entire problem. Understanding both these thing
by readflaggedcomm 5y ago
>my advice is rational, you aren’t in a rational state of mind
That's not just a problem with teaching, it's the entire problem. Understanding both these things will be true at the same time requires maturation or emotional discipline, which it's not yet taboo to describe as learned behaviors.
- eyelidlessness 5y agoHere’s what I actually said: > The problem with teaching people when they’re in a moment of profound weakness is there’s an implied demand: my advice is rational, you aren’t in a rational state of mind, choose one. You’re just making the demand explicit. It’s still a demand, not a fact. Edit: to be really clear, this attitude that you have rational advice and I’m irrational is a way to ensure that any approach you take that shows any hint of it is suspect. You may believe it all you want, you might even be correct, but I’m just getting manipulation signals.
- readflaggedcomm 5y agoYou're wrong, and that's why anybody helping you will fall on deaf ears. Humans are irrational. Irrationality can be managed, understood, and harnessed. Don't pretend that grief is an impenetrable weapon against rational thought.