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Meanwhile the community is having a big debate over the CoC, deciding what exact wording they should use to say "be nice and include everyone".

• imwillofficial 5y ago
  Why just communities be forced to accept everyone? Or even be nice? When in a group of friends we can often times not “be nice” however because we know each other, we understand it comes from a place of love. Perhaps it’s a military background thing, but exclusivity has its benefits.
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  • tomc1985 5y ago
    But that goes against the current zeitgeist where you absolutely must love everyone (except your political and ideological opponents)... or else!!!
    • cma 5y ago
      Race-based hatred as been taboo for quite a while, starting big after WWII. It isn't current zeitgeist.
      • Taywee 5y ago
        Why are you immediately assuming racism?
        • cma 5y ago
          Maybe I'm misreading what he is getting at. Is it more of a politeness is bad thing?
          • tomc1985 5y ago
            I'm trying to point out the hypocrisy of a cultural impetus to be super inclusive towards everyone, except the people you disagree with
            • skydhash 5y ago
              Because opinion is transient and can be changed on a whim, unless what is part of the identity of the person (physical apparence, religion and other cor values). Being exclusive only reduce cohesiveness.
      • account42 5y ago
        Race-based hatred is still accepted in many places as long as it is towards the correct race.
      • redis_mlc 5y ago
        CRT is racist against white people - it's the whole point of CRT.
  • Kaze404 5y ago
    Because we're not friends.