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> This is kind of an American way of thinking. Small talk with strangers is weird in many places. I agree it depends on where you are, though I'm not sure abou
by jannyfer 5y ago
> This is kind of an American way of thinking. Small talk with strangers is weird in many places.
I agree it depends on where you are, though I'm not sure about the "American" categorization.
I was in Seoul where small talk with strangers was completely weird... then I went to a different city in South Korea, Busan, where people would chat you up all over the place (waiting in line, in a street food stall, at the sauna, etc).
I later learned that Busan was a city of refugees in the Korean War where the entire country was pushed into a single city - people had to learn to live closely packed together and cooperate, and the culture stuck.
I'm an introvert and prefer to not have small talk, but as a tourist in Busan, it wasn't that bad (fun, actually) to randomly hear about a stranger's daughter's upcoming wedding, completely unprompted.
- throwaway2037 5y agoThank you to share you insights about Seoul vs Busan! I never knew about the history of Busan. I have heard similar things about Tokyo vs Osaka, where people in Tokyo are comparatively less open (to random, public interactions) and more personally reserved.