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Normies can't sacrifice facebook, can they? Rare people connect online because they are geographically separated. Can you run this site offline, at which locati

Normies can't sacrifice facebook, can they? Rare people connect online because they are geographically separated. Can you run this site offline, at which location, and what will be the resulting engagement?

coldtea 5y ago
All of the above is neither here, nor there though. This is not about "where to find info and others interested about a subculture" (sure, online will be easier). Or where to host gatherings for it (sure, online will be easier). It's about what else you do. "Normies" still have (or some have) the evolutionary human IRL connection (meetings in meetspace, touching, partners and friends they see face to face, etc). The subcultures as described in TFA (and what I'm saying might not be the best for them) is lacking that. That is, the subject is about persons shut-in, with no IRL contact, and connected through the web to some subculture(s). A hikikomori like existence. Not about some everyday person that is fan of medieval bard songs, and aside their regular meatspace partners, friends, spouses, acquaintainces, etc. also frequent some forums. Let's put it another way: "Rare people connect online because they are geographically separated" puts the cart before the horse. Connecting online is not the problem (as I see it). Not connecting offline as well is. And the idea of "a rare person", whose criterium for connecting to someone else is them being part of the same subculture is part of the issue.
- GoblinSlayer 5y ago
  Not sure if all hikikomori must literally live like a lich in the dungeon 24/7. I'd say people who only prefer to spend their free time that way would qualify as hikikomori just fine. Then you can't really evade offline contact if you don't live in literal wilderness. >And the idea of "a rare person", whose criterium for connecting to someone else is them being part of the same subculture is part of the issue. In my experience subcultured people have more permissive criteria for connections, and mainstream people want to kill all nonconformance with fire.

coldtea 5y ago

All of the above is neither here, nor there though. This is not about "where to find info and others interested about a subculture" (sure, online will be easier). Or where to host gatherings for it (sure, online will be easier). It's about what else you do. "Normies" still have (or some have) the evolutionary human IRL connection (meetings in meetspace, touching, partners and friends they see face to face, etc). The subcultures as described in TFA (and what I'm saying might not be the best for them) is lacking that. That is, the subject is about persons shut-in, with no IRL contact, and connected through the web to some subculture(s). A hikikomori like existence. Not about some everyday person that is fan of medieval bard songs, and aside their regular meatspace partners, friends, spouses, acquaintainces, etc. also frequent some forums. Let's put it another way: "Rare people connect online because they are geographically separated" puts the cart before the horse. Connecting online is not the problem (as I see it). Not connecting offline as well is. And the idea of "a rare person", whose criterium for connecting to someone else is them being part of the same subculture is part of the issue.

GoblinSlayer 5y ago
Not sure if all hikikomori must literally live like a lich in the dungeon 24/7. I'd say people who only prefer to spend their free time that way would qualify as hikikomori just fine. Then you can't really evade offline contact if you don't live in literal wilderness. >And the idea of "a rare person", whose criterium for connecting to someone else is them being part of the same subculture is part of the issue. In my experience subcultured people have more permissive criteria for connections, and mainstream people want to kill all nonconformance with fire.