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Discussion style interviews aren't about pretending they're not interviewing you though.
by monocasa 5y ago
Discussion style interviews aren't about pretending they're not interviewing you though.
- jstx1 5y agoThe title is "Don't do interviews, do discussions". That's repeated in the main text. The author seems to be concerned about the feeling of "I am being evaluated". I think that's counterproductive because it's false - being evaluatated is the whole point of the conversation and it's better if both sides were honest about it instead of lying to each other and playing games.
- kube-system 5y agoThe tone of an evaluation can change the experience and isn’t boolean.
- RNCTX 5y agoWhich is another way of saying "life isn't boolean" honestly.
- monocasa 5y agoIn context, I take it to mean "don't do the normal format of interviewing, use discussions". No amount of phrasing is going to convince you that you aren't sitting in an interview. I wouldn't want to convince you you're not in an interview anyway, that seems pretty dishonest. There's just way more value in having a (albeit can be fairly technical) discussion rather than typical call/response style of interview that consists pretty much solely of "did you memorize what I'm looking for". Particularly because I don't expect the person I'm interviewing to be a master of everything, having a discussion can lead to some common ground where we can go in deep on some of your actual previous experience.
- pdpi 5y ago"Interview" is ambiguous here. No matter what you do, it's always true that you're interviewing the candidate in the "assessing a candidate" sense, but you don't have to do this by interviewing them in the sense of "question and answer format you'd see a journalist use".