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What a strange article. First, there is no need to put pressure on yourself to learn 'quickly' - that's counter productive. Second, you need to find a good te
by alexashka 5y ago
What a strange article.
First, there is no need to put pressure on yourself to learn 'quickly' - that's counter productive.
Second, you need to find a good teacher.
Finding good teachers is how you learn 'quickly'. Now the way to do that is to have parents who can help you.
Really, the way to learn 'quickly', is to be born into a family that's loving and competent at life. Then it just happens - by the time you develop the ability and interest in looking around to figure out what's going on, you'll have been in after-school activities and a good school for like 10 years.
There's a bit of an escape hatch - if you're good at academics or sports, you'll get to have secondary father/mother figures and that'll be your chance to catch up. If you don't, you're kind of fucked :)
If you weren't born with loving and competent parents, you'll be floundering through-out life, in relationships, in your career, in lack of self esteem. It's a near guarantee, because whatever short comings your parents had, you'll be solving and then some. That's just how life goes.
Anyhoo :)
- ZephyrBlu 5y agoBeing able to learn quickly is extremely valuable, and you don't need a teacher to be able to do so. In saying that, I'm not sure it's something that can be taught. Don't really get what your parents being "good at life" means though, and everyone's parents have shortcomings.
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- nathias 5y agoWhatever parents and teachers you might have in the end you either learn to learn for yourself or don't and you either keep on learning or don't. It isn't very hard or a special thing where you need to have everything go just the right way, this is a very basic thing for our species and anyone can do it.
- emmaLe 5y agoThe internet raised me and I've learned everything from it. I agree with you on the first point. If you wish to actually learn, you take your time. As for everything else... maybe you should keep out of the """psychology""" section of the library for a while.
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