The subset of servers I am in inherently do not want to be easily discovered. And I’m in some large servers (total members > 25,000). You have to either be in a

The subset of servers I am in inherently do not want to be easily discovered. And I’m in some large servers (total members > 25,000). You have to either be in a related server, find it from a related subreddit/youtube channel/tiktok profile/etc., or be directly invited. Anecdatally, this seems generally to be a cultural divide among demographics where restricting access is not good enough for privacy—the mere knowledge of its existence is the first barrier (see: teenagers and “finstagrams”)