If that's his personal moral code, I don't have a problem with him substituting "programmers" for "men", but just do it and spare me the lecture. I consciously

If that's his personal moral code, I don't have a problem with him substituting "programmers" for "men", but just do it and spare me the lecture. I consciously avoid referring to groups of women or mixed-genders as "guys", but I don't stop and point out to everybody that I did it whenever I do.