GP: > "Is it normal?" just sounds like you saying "it isn't normal, she did something bad", almost putting the guilt on her. You: > I disagree. Also you: >

GP: > "Is it normal?" just sounds like you saying "it isn't normal, she did something bad", almost putting the guilt on her. You: > I disagree. Also you: > she also should have had the moral fortitude not to ... This seems to be a contradiction, unless you disagree on some metalevel, disagreeing with the course of events in general.