> Tantrums are bad behaviour and should never happen This is not true and is extremely unrealistic thinking. Also: some traits of your children's personality

> Tantrums are bad behaviour and should never happen This is not true and is extremely unrealistic thinking. Also: some traits of your children's personality form very young, regardless of your style of parenting. Your influence is strong of course, but some things are just due to the way your kid is wired. You can set an example, and be firm about bad behavior, but some shit is going to happen anyway, tantrums included, depending on the personality of your children.