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Niobe Way comes to similar conclusions in Deep Secrets: Boys’ Friendships and the Crisis of Connection but I’m not sure I’d pin it on a shift in religion but th
by slv77 5y ago
Niobe Way comes to similar conclusions in Deep Secrets: Boys’ Friendships and the Crisis of Connection but I’m not sure I’d pin it on a shift in religion but the hyper-sexualization of society that started in the 60’s where every intimate relationship was primarily defined in the context of sex. Today much of the language and expressions of intimate relationships has been entirely co-opted and has sexual overtones compared to the 1800’s. Expressions such as holding hands and words such as love and intimate all now have sexual overtones they previously did not.
https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2011/04/the-secret-lives-of-boys/ https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2011/04/the-secret-li...
https://dustyoldthing.com/19th-century-concept-of-friendship/ https://dustyoldthing.com/19th-century-concept-of-friendship...
- GauntletWizard 5y agoI'm saying that the hyper-sexualization is a religion, or at least part of one. It is part of a series of memes that redefine all human relationships in terms of "Power", some nebulous concept that does not really map to the way humans interact except in a very weird misunderstanding of second-order effects. Call it Queer, call it Progressive, call it Woke or whatever - It's religion.