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You're so right about that! In fact I've had similar thoughts about it. Still, i find myself wondering if maybe by chance people do remember and do judge me fo
by 0xdeadb00f 5y ago
You're so right about that! In fact I've had similar thoughts about it.
Still, i find myself wondering if maybe by chance people do remember and do judge me for things I've said and done. But that can't be true all the time, and yet, I still dwell on these things...
Nevertheless thanks for your comment.
- illwrks 5y agoI read years ago about a 'trust meter' or a something similar (sorry I've forgotten the exact name for it). The basic idea is that all relationships (business, personal etc) starts at zero and depending on the things they do or say either destroys people (-1) trust or build people trust (+1). If you've done something negative, acknowledge it to yourself and any anyone else that was impacted by it and move forward from it. Knowing your flaws, acknowledging them and working around them is an important thing to do. 'Water under the bridge' and all of that...
- HKH2 5y agoWell if you have come to terms with what led you to those actions, it shouldn't be a problem to revisit them. You'll reflect the attitude in your demeanor.
- 0xdeadb00f 5y agoIt's more about me not thinking before saying things. I have learnt my lesson in all these cases but I often feel anxious, paranoid, that people don't know that, and assume I am the way I was before when I said those things. In a way I have come to terms because I have learnt my lesson but it the thought of me doing that almost torments me still.
- HKH2 5y agoI read somewhere that the human brain doesn't fully mature until around the age of 25 and the last place to fully mature is the front part of the brain that deals with inhibitory control. Teenagers are impulsive by nature.