> I learnt that it's in my interest to make a consolation point toward people with opposite opinions in public places Well, you've just been shown the opposite

> I learnt that it's in my interest to make a consolation point toward people with opposite opinions in public places Well, you've just been shown the opposite. By dismissing your own argument - by claiming it is just a matter of random, arbitrary preference - you kind of write yourself out of the conversation. I guess you are less likely to offend, but you're less likely for anyone to listen at all. You may as well have not spoken in the first place.