In the first real name discussion I had a lengthy debate about exactly this point. The issue I see here is that you argue for keeping the rules with 'I don't wa

In the first real name discussion I had a lengthy debate about exactly this point. The issue I see here is that you argue for keeping the rules with 'I don't want THEM to show up as ...' while the other side argues 'I don't want ME to be listed as ...'. One side of the argument wants to force their standard on others. The other side wants to be left alone and decide about their own account as they please.