> But not friendliness (unless it's asshole-level unfriendliness) over competence. If you could translate "friendliness" and "competence" into equivalent units

> But not friendliness (unless it's asshole-level unfriendliness) over competence. If you could translate "friendliness" and "competence" into equivalent units, I think competence would be devalued compared to friendliness, at least once you get into negative values (e.g. for every extra point of unfriendliness, you need 5-10 competence points to make up for it).