Ah, I mis-understood your premise for that paragraph then - sorry! On another offtopic note, I think the whole having to be macho thing is changing pretty fast

Ah, I mis-understood your premise for that paragraph then - sorry! On another offtopic note, I think the whole having to be macho thing is changing pretty fast though - not yet disappeared, but on its way. One of the biggest things I've noticed (in England) is that it's very common to see boys, aged 7-16 wearing pink tshirts. Even in my childhood ~10 years ago I don't think I remember any friends or anyone my age wearing pink for it being too feminine a colour. And that's just one random thing, but that trend seems to hold true in my experience in adults too, and not just in clothing.