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I had the same worries as someone who with some luck will graduate in his 30s. I went back to college after dropping out when I was in my early 20s. Someone to
by javchz 5y ago
I had the same worries as someone who with some luck will graduate in his 30s.
I went back to college after dropping out when I was in my early 20s. Someone told me "You're going to be X+4 years in 4 years anyway, why not try achieving that thing you want. Time will pass either way"
Surprise: Right now I enjoy college VS before when it felt like a chore I had to go because was the "right thing to do".
It's great to share a space with people who share the same interest in a topic of science/humanities as you do.
Being an old dude in college, allows you to be less worried about late-teenage problems like drama in relationships, in my case being hot-headed, dealing with parents' expectations, or the chronic stress from failing tests thinking it's the end of the world, etc.
Plus, being the "old dude" from the class, hasn't been a problem at all, people are respectful most of the time, and if you're friendly, they will even seek you for mentorship.
As long as you're not behaving like Chevy Chase from "Community", nobody will give much importance to your age.
Yeah, there is a lot of things that are just bureaucracy to create false gatekeeping that I don't like even now.
But from time to time, I find lectures about topics I didn't know existed... and I have that feeling of being a kid again, and finding something new from 0. And that's 100% worth it. So I get why the dude, would keep searching for a PhD even in his eldery years.
I am fortunate enough to live in a country where college it's free. But if it's too expensive, you could get a lot of the value from distance Coursera, and online courses/communities.
- the_only_law 5y agoIt’s not about being old in school, in fact I’m fairly sure I could make much more of it now then had I gone at 17-18. It’s about being old when I finish. Losing the rest of my youth being out of place (funny enough I’ve always been the young guy among older people and school would just invert that, it’s not the biggest issue in the world, but it does become very isolating at times) and losing years of earning power on what feels like a gamble. Being the oldest candidate applying for a new job, etc.
- javchz 5y agoIt's a gamble. Opportunity cost it's a real thing. The risk/benefit ratio will depend on the career. In IT, in a lot of jobs, you can have a competitive salary with Bootcamps and self-taught skills. Now ageism it's a thing... but at the same time one that plays in your favor, usually companies that only hire early-20s, tend to be exploitative or abusive (pizza instead of proper extra hours payments, etc). I will say it's only worth it if you see your college studies more like a self-development thing rather than just a multiplier on your salary.