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> just tell them this didn't turn out to be what you were expecting I suppose my ego is getting in the way here; I really want to tell them how they have done
by pdimitar 5y ago
> just tell them this didn't turn out to be what you were expecting
I suppose my ego is getting in the way here; I really want to tell them how they have done goofed up but I also learned that such feedback is, 99% of the time, unwanted, so I believe your advice is better than what I originally thought I'll do. Thank you.
- bluefirebrand 5y agoAny time. I've been there and it's a sucky situation. I understand it's tempting to give them a piece of your mind, but I've found that taking the high road helps. The problem is you giving honest and brutal feedback feels good in the moment but you never know when any connections you have will come in useful in the future, and if you will burn those connections with your feedback. You don't stand to gain much by being honest on your way out, but there's a possibility of losing out if you are. So take the high road.