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My son's mom died of cancer last February, and two days later they found tumors in my then girlfriend/now late fiancee. She passed away last month. I stopped w

My son's mom died of cancer last February, and two days later they found tumors in my then girlfriend/now late fiancee. She passed away last month. I stopped working several months ago and have no immediate desire or need to go back to work. I'm not sure if it's a blessing or curse to have so much free time to grieve. Enjoying the downtime with occasional spontaneous bursts of tears. Edit: thank everyone for the kind words. I put together this 4 minute tribute of our times together to honor her/us. She was beautiful. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DB5_1mdTgcM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DB5_1mdTgcM

quetzthecoatl 5y ago
Sorry for your loss. Do whatever you need to make your days easier.
sbuccini 5y ago
We’re here if you need someone to talk to. Reach out any time, my email is in my profile.
porker 5y ago
I'm sorry. People are precious and our time with them even more so.
BrandonM 5y ago
I'm very sorry for your loss. May their memory be a blessing.
philangist 5y ago
My deepest condolences to you and your son for your losses.
diskzero 5y ago
I am sorry to hear about the loss you have suffered. My situation is similar. My wife passed from cancer Oct. 1 and I have no desire to return to work. Please feel free to reach out if you want to talk with someone in a similar situation to yours.
helloguillecl 5y ago
I'm very sorry for your loss. Beautiful video.
paganel 5y ago
RIP and stay strong, there's some light at the end of the tunnel.
neysofu 5y ago
I'm so sorry. She looks so happy in this video.
thr0w__4w4y 5y ago
Very touching video, your girlfriend/fiancee looked so positive, happy and joyful. Sometimes the randomness of the universe and the human body can be cruel and nonsensical. I'm incredibly sorry for your loss. I'm happy that you had the time with this wonderful woman and that you have the memories, even though I'm sure right now everything is still raw. Godspeed.
grupthink 5y ago
It took me a few tries at parsing your situation. Holy shit. Big hugs to you, brother. Be strong.
- colecut 5y ago
  It's been a wild few years. My only sibling overdosed and died in 2019 as well, on Easter weekend.. There are some interesting similarities between heroin addiction and cancer.. I don't need anything from anyone but I appreciate the sympathy, the amount of views that my video received from this post is crazy. I'm very touched and I hope she is too.
  - grupthink 5y ago
    Wild is an understatement. The shit you've been through! For context, I'm only 20 and when I broke up with my gf last year that messed me up. The only thing I know is, when you're ready to move forward, you have to somehow channel your energy into passion and vigor for your life and those around you who love you very much. Fight your way with all your spirit. I wish you all the best colecut. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8KyorrH_Vu8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8KyorrH_Vu8

quetzthecoatl 5y ago

Sorry for your loss. Do whatever you need to make your days easier.

sbuccini 5y ago

We’re here if you need someone to talk to. Reach out any time, my email is in my profile.

porker 5y ago

I'm sorry. People are precious and our time with them even more so.

BrandonM 5y ago

I'm very sorry for your loss. May their memory be a blessing.

philangist 5y ago

My deepest condolences to you and your son for your losses.

diskzero 5y ago

I am sorry to hear about the loss you have suffered. My situation is similar. My wife passed from cancer Oct. 1 and I have no desire to return to work. Please feel free to reach out if you want to talk with someone in a similar situation to yours.

helloguillecl 5y ago

I'm very sorry for your loss. Beautiful video.

paganel 5y ago

RIP and stay strong, there's some light at the end of the tunnel.

neysofu 5y ago

I'm so sorry. She looks so happy in this video.

thr0w__4w4y 5y ago

Very touching video, your girlfriend/fiancee looked so positive, happy and joyful. Sometimes the randomness of the universe and the human body can be cruel and nonsensical. I'm incredibly sorry for your loss. I'm happy that you had the time with this wonderful woman and that you have the memories, even though I'm sure right now everything is still raw. Godspeed.

grupthink 5y ago

It took me a few tries at parsing your situation. Holy shit. Big hugs to you, brother. Be strong.

colecut 5y ago
It's been a wild few years. My only sibling overdosed and died in 2019 as well, on Easter weekend.. There are some interesting similarities between heroin addiction and cancer.. I don't need anything from anyone but I appreciate the sympathy, the amount of views that my video received from this post is crazy. I'm very touched and I hope she is too.
- grupthink 5y ago
  Wild is an understatement. The shit you've been through! For context, I'm only 20 and when I broke up with my gf last year that messed me up. The only thing I know is, when you're ready to move forward, you have to somehow channel your energy into passion and vigor for your life and those around you who love you very much. Fight your way with all your spirit. I wish you all the best colecut. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8KyorrH_Vu8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8KyorrH_Vu8