We have to somehow hack ourselves and make our brains love winning/succeeding. I think we mostly don't love winning or succeeding per se, even when that happen

We have to somehow hack ourselves and make our brains love winning/succeeding. I think we mostly don't love winning or succeeding per se, even when that happens it's not the joy of winning and succeeding as much as it is the relief of not having crashed and burned. The whole mental process is dominated by loss aversion, not by victory enthusiasm.