There do exist people out there that are selfish sexual partners and mis-value sex. It is possible you'll run into someone like this in the real world. But thes

There do exist people out there that are selfish sexual partners and mis-value sex. It is possible you'll run into someone like this in the real world. But these people are at fault, not you. And I think if you look for sexual partners that display obvious compassion in all aspects of what they do you'll be safe from this kind of behavior.