Those numbers are completely normal for the list of friends and acquittances you've met over your lifetime. And of that list you would only be interacting with

Those numbers are completely normal for the list of friends and acquittances you've met over your lifetime. And of that list you would only be interacting with a fraction on a regular basis. But that's completely different from say Reddit where you would be exposed to hundreds of thousands of different people over the lifetime of using the site.