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I'm sorry you feel that way. It sounds difficult. I believe there are many things that could help you find more pleasure in life and also find more fulfilling s

by yosito 5y ago

I'm sorry you feel that way. It sounds difficult. I believe there are many things that could help you find more pleasure in life and also find more fulfilling sex. I recommend searching for those things, and looking for people who can help you. But I'm actually commenting to point out that sex with a prostitute doesn't have to be risky, despite stereotypes. Most prostitutes are frequently tested for infectious diseases, and most will have no objection if you ask to see a recent clean test. Very very few prostitutes will have unprotected sex. And you could even find a less active prostitute who doesn't have sex with many people. The biggest risk is probably legality, depending on where you're based. But, assuming you have legal access to it, I would recommend seriously considering it. It's a fair exchange of something you have, for something you need that could really help you get what you want out of life. As long as it's between consenting adults, there is no problem with safely exploring this option. One note that I would recommend if you do pursue it is to also pursue personal growth at the same time, because few people find that sex with a prostitute was what they really wanted, and you may find that what you really want in life will take a lot of work to achieve.

hellojesus 5y ago
Thank you for your response. I appreciate it. The problem I have concerning diseases and prostitutes is that, although many get tested often, almost all testing excludes hsv and hpv unless specifically requested. And since ~12% of the population carry hsv-2, which can shed asymptomatically and be contracted from skin-to-skin groinal contact, it seems that it's an eventuality if I pick up prostitution long term, and then it's for life. Condoms help, but they're not perfect. I asked on a forums once if prostitutes would be okay if I wore condom shorts such as the following link, and I was told that (1) the hobby was not for me, (2) the probability of contraction given the use of condoms is low enough not to be a consideration, and (3) the item probably wasn't tested under the same standards as condoms so probably isn't as safe (I figure latex material such as this would be a find physical barrier). https://m.aliexpress.com/item/1005001595057592.html?spm=a2g0n.productlist.0.0.5d617484SiKg6H&browser_id=a57269651b6a4331b7b6d3f243cf9a2a&aff_trace_key=&aff_platform=msite&m_page_id=00117cc83627931571e198c124b250b011a77f3aa1&gclid= https://m.aliexpress.com/item/1005001595057592.html?spm=a2g0... I'm still contemplating it but am having trouble digesting the sti risk. The legal risk doesn't bother me. Edit: auto-correct
- voldacar 5y ago
  For someone who wants to die constantly, you seem very concerned about taking good care of your body and health. Not insulting you, I know how weird and contradictory humans can be. It's just interesting.
  - hellojesus 5y ago
    I know. It's ridiculous, and I hate it, but that's my mental state. I think I wrote it was counter intuitive in my initial post because, as you point out, it's as rational as pi.
- ghostbrainalpha 5y ago
  I was where you are for about 10 years. Don't give up hope, it can end. Also have you tried websites for "sugar babies" instead of an actual prostitute. Someone who is willing to get tested, and sleep with you regularly but doesn't have the same risk profile as a prostitute?
  - hellojesus 5y ago
    I've considered it but haven't had much luck. For a period of time in the past I ran a small porn production shop wherein I would hire and then get recent test results from models. But TTS, the industry standard, doesn't test for hsv or hpv so I gave up while I was ahead.

by yosito 5y ago

hellojesus 5y ago

Thank you for your response. I appreciate it. The problem I have concerning diseases and prostitutes is that, although many get tested often, almost all testing excludes hsv and hpv unless specifically requested. And since ~12% of the population carry hsv-2, which can shed asymptomatically and be contracted from skin-to-skin groinal contact, it seems that it's an eventuality if I pick up prostitution long term, and then it's for life. Condoms help, but they're not perfect. I asked on a forums once if prostitutes would be okay if I wore condom shorts such as the following link, and I was told that (1) the hobby was not for me, (2) the probability of contraction given the use of condoms is low enough not to be a consideration, and (3) the item probably wasn't tested under the same standards as condoms so probably isn't as safe (I figure latex material such as this would be a find physical barrier). https://m.aliexpress.com/item/1005001595057592.html?spm=a2g0n.productlist.0.0.5d617484SiKg6H&browser_id=a57269651b6a4331b7b6d3f243cf9a2a&aff_trace_key=&aff_platform=msite&m_page_id=00117cc83627931571e198c124b250b011a77f3aa1&gclid= https://m.aliexpress.com/item/1005001595057592.html?spm=a2g0... I'm still contemplating it but am having trouble digesting the sti risk. The legal risk doesn't bother me. Edit: auto-correct

voldacar 5y ago
For someone who wants to die constantly, you seem very concerned about taking good care of your body and health. Not insulting you, I know how weird and contradictory humans can be. It's just interesting.
- hellojesus 5y ago
  I know. It's ridiculous, and I hate it, but that's my mental state. I think I wrote it was counter intuitive in my initial post because, as you point out, it's as rational as pi.
ghostbrainalpha 5y ago
I was where you are for about 10 years. Don't give up hope, it can end. Also have you tried websites for "sugar babies" instead of an actual prostitute. Someone who is willing to get tested, and sleep with you regularly but doesn't have the same risk profile as a prostitute?
- hellojesus 5y ago
  I've considered it but haven't had much luck. For a period of time in the past I ran a small porn production shop wherein I would hire and then get recent test results from models. But TTS, the industry standard, doesn't test for hsv or hpv so I gave up while I was ahead.