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Dildos are more socially acceptable because it's usually understood that the woman could have an actual penis if she wished, but on this occasion is choosing th
by excalibur 5y ago
Dildos are more socially acceptable because it's usually understood that the woman could have an actual penis if she wished, but on this occasion is choosing the toy instead. Men would rarely choose a Fleshlight over an actual vagina. If they're using one it's understood that this is the closest they can get to the real thing at the moment, hence the sadness.
- vmception 5y agoExhibit A > I can perceive the supporting toxic culture that reinforces this standard, it is still unnecessarily gendered, and I think that angle at this point in time can help deconstruct a lot of these standards. Right now, men wouldn't choose one because of the perception of failure. It's not exactly settled about which one feels better or would be the objective choice to men.