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I don't know about others, but for me fleshlights just look seedy and a bit sad. Dildos are acceptable because they're much less human, I think -- they're almos

• excalibur 5y ago
  Dildos are more socially acceptable because it's usually understood that the woman could have an actual penis if she wished, but on this occasion is choosing the toy instead. Men would rarely choose a Fleshlight over an actual vagina. If they're using one it's understood that this is the closest they can get to the real thing at the moment, hence the sadness.
  • vmception 5y ago
    Exhibit A > I can perceive the supporting toxic culture that reinforces this standard, it is still unnecessarily gendered, and I think that angle at this point in time can help deconstruct a lot of these standards. Right now, men wouldn't choose one because of the perception of failure. It's not exactly settled about which one feels better or would be the objective choice to men.
• vmception 5y ago
  Fleshlights have other models that don’t look like a “labia flesh flashlight vagina” at all To me that’s besides the point though Any man with a synthetix orifice or solo penis pleasure device around is getting vilified right now