> But that requires listening to them, as people, not dismissing them. See what what it's really about You cannot listen to someone if they do not do the same

> But that requires listening to them, as people, not dismissing them. See what what it's really about You cannot listen to someone if they do not do the same back. From my own experience, questions are always deflected, even simple ones. I want to learn how and why they think, however, when I propose questions to do exactly that, it is taken as a personal insult rather than curiosity.