Totally with you. I can't imagine being married to "another one of me" - either there's not much you add to each other, or you're competing. Like you, my wife

Totally with you. I can't imagine being married to "another one of me" - either there's not much you add to each other, or you're competing. Like you, my wife doesn't just work in another field but is very much more driven by care and emotion and logic and "justice" that matter to me. Sometimes this makes it hard to co-exist since we literally look at problems from a totally different perspective, but the resolution of that conflict (or figuring out how to coexist despite the difference) is incredibly enriching, I'd not get to grow this way with someone else.