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I have a theory on what your reaction could be, and that's because I've expected your kind of reaction in the past and don't do much anymore. When I watched th
by theaussiestew 5y ago
I have a theory on what your reaction could be, and that's because I've expected your kind of reaction in the past and don't do much anymore.
When I watched the video I didn't really perceive the people to be "fake" or "ungenuine". I think what's happening is that the vibes these people are giving off are just so radically different to what we're used to in society and our upbringing. For better or for worse, we've grown up to be mistrustful of others as a means of self-protection e.g. to prevent ourselves from being conned, scammed, or taken advantage of. This constant mistrust causes physiological effects on us over time, you could definitely intrepret it as causing elevated levels of cortisol, but I simply interpret it as causing uncomfortable feelings and physical tension.
So what I think is happening is that the nature of these people as very open and trusting and relaxed is conflicting with and almost triggering the latent mistrust that lies within us. Our mind does its best to interpret the situation and lands on the hypothesis that these people are the causes of the physiological and psychological reactions we're having. You know, because maybe they're scammers, con-artists or just putting on a facade. They can't possibly actually be like that, can they?
But I don't think they are mistrustworthy at all in fact I feel it's actually the opposite. Just my 2 cents :)
- jcims 5y agoI’m going to hang on to this idea, i really like it. thank you.