As someone more introverted than most, I had a similar problem in college, but I noticed that I tended to become friendly with the people I lived with. So I joi

As someone more introverted than most, I had a similar problem in college, but I noticed that I tended to become friendly with the people I lived with. So I joined a 38-person house in a student housing cooperative, and I made friends there who I’m still close to a decade later. (This was during my senior year, though I kind of hung around for another year after that.) Nothing else (clubs, classes, etc.) ended up working for me, since making friends in those circumstances required the kind of active effort that I just wasn’t comfortable with.