>simply ask some of the other people "what are you doing tonight?" after the class Yes, and 1) in this context the stakes are lower, it's not some big planned

>simply ask some of the other people "what are you doing tonight?" after the class Yes, and 1) in this context the stakes are lower, it's not some big planned event or party. And 2) You're not trying to meet people or start from 0 at a party amongst strangers; these are people you already know you're just out having a good time.