> I'm busy a lot of the time so don't think about this. The most critical thing is to be intentional about it, and to set aside time. Like any goal, it almost

> I'm busy a lot of the time so don't think about this. The most critical thing is to be intentional about it, and to set aside time. Like any goal, it almost certainly won't happen if you do not set aside time and energy to work on it. Relationships are also often something that grow over time, rather than a lightning bolt that hits you all at once. Try asking who wants to go to a second location and get dinner or coffee or whatever the next time you see folks from your club, or the next time a tutorial is wrapping up. Do it again the next week. I am sure that even if you don't believe you have things in common, you'll be able to do what everyone does to some extent: listen anyway, and eventually you'll find common ground.