The problem is that there are always problems. Many look at a problem as a frustating situation, and wish it would go away. That's what "they think I'm stupid

The problem is that there are always problems. Many look at a problem as a frustating situation, and wish it would go away. That's what "they think I'm stupid" is mostly about. Most people just want things to work, which is understandable and reasonable, but not rational. It's wishful thinking, that has no action or teeth. In reality, constant change and development will always bring about frustration. The true problem is accepting that you can't control everything. But after realizing that, pretend that you are in control. Be ok with the results, no matter what's the ultimate solution. ie. Ignore what you can't control, and BE YOURSELF. BUT, listen to your elders. Listen for at least 3 months. Think about it. If you're still willing to listen to their advice, but don't want to take it, go slowly forward, and live your life. The next generation is always unfathomable to their parents, but you need to respect, and listen, for they truly do know things you don't know, but the reverse is true as well.