I'm generally open, but if the conversation is likely to go towards handouts I'll keep quiet. Outside the workplace I lose my main motivator: ensuring we're al

I'm generally open, but if the conversation is likely to go towards handouts I'll keep quiet. Outside the workplace I lose my main motivator: ensuring we're all getting what we deserve. People like friends/family aren't in the same bucket - so there's less to gain (either for me or them) by sharing this and likely exposing imbalance.