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> no one wants to explain themselves to a stranger we will never meet again Even though I, personally, feel the way you do, the above doesn't ring true. Many
by jonahx 5y ago
> no one wants to explain themselves to a stranger we will never meet again
Even though I, personally, feel the way you do, the above doesn't ring true. Many people crave those small interactions with strangers, and welcome the opportunity to talk about themselves. That's the reason they're a social norm.
- eddieroger 5y agoI'm in a very similar boat as you two (why does the barista at Starbucks care what my weekend plans are?), but I don't think it's always that people want to talk about themselves, I think they just want to talk to somebody, period. Humans are social creatures and have survived on our ability to form communities, so there is part of us that sometimes just want people to talk to, not necessarily about ourselves. For sure there are narcissists who do only want to talk about themselves, but I wouldn't say that's everyone.