Let the haters hate, just ask questions and move on. One of the hardest lessons to learn in life is to not concern yourself with what others think of them. B

Let the haters hate, just ask questions and move on. One of the hardest lessons to learn in life is to not concern yourself with what others think of them. Be polite, courteous, and caring because you want people to like you and you don't want to be ostracized but those things come from within. But, "I want them to think I'm successful/hot/smart/cool/etc" is just a good way to show how you're not any of those things. So many stories are about people who try really hard to maintain these personas and they all fall apart from the tension. Delightful anecdotes in this article. Well done.