*Learning things that are hard for me: this is a "feeling stupid" thing and not a "looking stupid" thing, * When I was younger I found out that things that wer

*Learning things that are hard for me: this is a "feeling stupid" thing and not a "looking stupid" thing, * When I was younger I found out that things that were hard for me were making me angry. I would say that "this thing is stupid" or "it sucks". Where in reality I was stupid and I sucked. At some point I realized it was that I simply don't understand something that made me angry and then I started using that emotion as a telltale that I should step back and learn a bit more about the thing. In the end it evolved that I don't get angry anymore at things. I directly realize that I don't understand something and accept that I have more work to do on understanding it.