That's EXACTLY what I would end up doing. People in this thread have a decidedly hostile attitude towards people using their accumulated wealth/success in order

That's EXACTLY what I would end up doing. People in this thread have a decidedly hostile attitude towards people using their accumulated wealth/success in order to make their own children stand out. But honestly, what's so immoral about that? If I have the money to pay for private schooling, tutors, or afterschool activities, you betcha I'm going to give that to my child. Sure, it would be nice if the other kids had that too, but that's something the voters and politicians have decided on. As a lone voter in a democracy, how can you reasonably expect me to raise the quality of education for all the other kids before helping my own?