Chiming in to say it might also be the thinking that quality is more important than quantity in social relationships - true to point, but when your quantity is

Chiming in to say it might also be the thinking that quality is more important than quantity in social relationships - true to point, but when your quantity is zero, ANY interaction has quality. Just knock on her door and go out for a coffee, almost any random thing would work. Not even out of 0 and freaking out to achieve the local maxima.