All the more reason to explicitly call it out ahead of time, so they can be certain to use the right ones. Why would it be pushy, -especially- if there's reason

All the more reason to explicitly call it out ahead of time, so they can be certain to use the right ones. Why would it be pushy, -especially- if there's reason to believe someone will use the wrong ones? Really, I don't understand the objection; we pre-emptively give our names to people, for all the same reasons we might give people our pronouns.