That's a good direction to set one off. Love it. I don't enjoy that question the OP voiced in the framing that he used. I think it's a misguided framing, that

That's a good direction to set one off. Love it. I don't enjoy that question the OP voiced in the framing that he used. I think it's a misguided framing, that does not limit the question sufficiently that it might have a chance at an answer. Which would lead to quite some frustration, and so a life that is not as enjoyable as it might otherwise have been. I think the impulse to ask that question should be used productively. As in, "What is the game? Here, right now?" What is it about what I'm going to do now that I'm going to enjoy? How can I make what I'm doing play instead of work? I think that works better as a general approach.